We all want to live happily, sometimes, we are just too mean to ourselves. We don't allow ourselves make mistakes, we want everything perfect, then it's very hard for us to live happily. Actually, we really need to be good to ourselves.
It's often easier to be compassionate toward someone else than it is to be compassionate toward ourselves. We must treat ourselves better,say something good to ourselves, give ourselves some award. It's okay if we too are imperfect. So if we make a mistake, it's ok.
Just be good to yourself,inside and outside.
Inside, we should remind ourselves that we should be good to ourselves, we should accept mistakes we make, we should have a good attitude, be confident, then we don't need to be too worried about everything, we should have the idea that no one is perfect, we are humans.
Outside, just be confident, be positive. Always think about something good, We should know that we are not bad. We deserve something good. Always give ourselves some award. Have a happy life.
Be good to yourself. Be happy.